The Sucker Punch Sweet By and By

What I would write on a postcard from Lake Michigan in fall...


had a fine pine time

with the evergreen queen

and the fir campfire

prettiest ever seen


went a walkin' we

amid the spruce and loon

sung us a juniper jolly  

Michigander tune


waved to the seagulls

in squadrons on the beach

to weather out the storm

in perfect formation, each


nibbled wintergreen berries

that taste of  Clark's gum

us TV age kids don't know

the fruit came first, by gum


we went inside a teepee 

that Mr. Edlund made 

Whitey was his name 

makin wood stuff was his trade


collected flotsom bits and bobs

from God and from man

the good stuff was God's

the litter was from man 


got me a nice rock

wanted some black sand

but with rock and a feather

it wouldn't fit in my hand


he wouldn't carry it

though his pockets were deep

I don't blame him

it probably wouldn't keep


fine, inky silica

of quartz and hematite 

mining waste he said

I call it magic magnetite 


He did carry home

some driftwood we found

small for the rock shelf

the big on the ground


climbed the dune staircase

then a quick rest to take  

watched from a bench

our melted glacier lake 


more fine Whitey products

what a good soul was he

but then I recalled how

he and grampa fooled me 


Had me pee over the bench

when I had to go potty

said it was a special toilet (!)

grama said they were both dotty


(But then she stayed home and would not have wanted to use the woods "convenience" if she had come and wouldn't have known where to take me either. So I guess all's well that ends with relief. Grampa was severely chastised by me when I caught on. But in truth, I'd not have had a better idea. Ah such are memories. Dear God why do those honeyed arugula aches still glow so dull and strong? And I wouldn't write this next on a postcard. 


while benched, we wondered

about Ice Age and Indian

did they walk our same trails

these native folk back when?


talked of ships big and small

boats being favorites of mine

of frigates, canoes and Chris Craft

a Greatest of Lakes timeline


one subject led to another

as talks with your Opi should do

so much to say, so little time

I think our grandkids get this too


Who's Opi? It's gramp and Omi

is grama in Dutch (that's me!) 

we're all important branches

this thing called family tree! 


I call my grandparents theirs (the grands)

and list the greats so they can see

that who is who has a place 

in their own special history


I know mine would like being

known as their great Opi and Omi

when my next gen ask why

I say cuz it's YOUR family


But back to my bench (toilet)

so many moons ago

to bring then and now full circle

so that they will all know


I'm  61 now (how did that happen)

I want them to meet little me

when I was still sitting (maybe not that part)

and peeing over my bit of tree


I want to take them all back

all 12 of them if they could but see

how joyous it was for us then 

God, I can't even make me see 


(key change sexy riff)


It's an Irish thing to be lavish

and I'd give all I owned 

to be with Omi and Opi (OG)

does nothing else rhyme but stoned??


and it really doesn't matter 

cuz they'd scoff at the expense

they couldn't imagine how I'd give 

life's wages to see them past tense


He liked how we pondered

for a few footsteps in time

we were part of that great march

of mankind and maritime. 


And grama plays her part

in my longing for yore

it hurts so much that I 

can hardly bear to open that door


(Is this a retake on Carrickfergus?? Jesus, I can hear that damn Van Morrison version playing as I read this. No wonder they added the line about needing a drink!  It fits! Hallelujah I'm Irish, pass the booze. The only part I resonate with. Not really. Why did I say that? I hate that they're called Irish Car Bombs. Bobby Sands??? Pour me another. So less Irish than originally TOLD BY 23andme. But hey, never believed the stats anyway. How could a girl with one Irish granda on the distaff side be 43%, yeah, no. Unless that girl's Dutch relative somewhere...no too tired to figure that one out. Wait till you hear what 23andme says about my Andulsian and Maltese roots after amending their stats in some long headed nonsense I  don't understand. NOW I'm not 43% but only 20% Irish WITH Scots and Welsh WTactual? Well easy Eire easy go. And I like being mostly Netherlander anyway, so, where were we? Sorry... this part is serious and you should be too.)

I've only just managed to 

hush my O's during sleep 

their dear sweet voices calling 

nearly sent me over the deep


Such a lost little girl was I

so lonesome, lonely and alone

they were my world my all

theirs was the only home 


Jesus it hurts so much to recall

the sucker punch sweet by and by

I could easily drown in memory

it wouldn't be the worst way to die


But I won't because I remember

that I'm a wife, mom and Omi too

and I owe to all my loved ones 

our days in Lake Michigan blue


So let's pause to raise a glass

to the Opis and Omis gone before

thank you for the wonderful days

putting our footprints on the shore

 















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